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Parenting Tip: How “First/Then” Phrases Help with Transitions, Patience, and Responsibility child cooperation daily routines morning routine parenting tips patience responsibility transitions waiting Sep 02, 2025

Transitions can be one of the toughest parts of the day. Parents often find themselves repeating directions, negotiating endlessly, or feeling like they’re begging their child to cooperate. A simple shift in wording can make a big difference: try using “First…Then” phrases.

 

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